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BOWLING ON THE EAST SIDE, SORT OF

Jim_willisJim Willis in East Side Park.

Jim Willis rolled into town three months ago eager to do some community building.

It’s what he does. A self-employed 36-year-old techie, Willis spends his workdays knocking down perceived barriers between people and information. His weapon of choice is software, which he uses to open issues up for discussion and to bring people together.

It’s what he did in his job as director of eGovernment services in the Rhode Island secretary of state’s office, where he went on a four-year tear putting previously hard-to-access information at the public’s fingertips via the web.

Now, working as a consultant to nonprofits, Willis focuses on helping activists capitalize on the universe of data that’s available to them online.

But that’s his professional side. On the personal side, Willis is equally passionate about what he calls “social capital” and what most of us think of as family relationships and friendships. (Yes, Willis acknowledges, he tends to get a little caught up in the jargon of social science.)

In essence, Willis subscribes to the belief that traditional social life in America has been frayed by a number of forces —€” the rise of television, the emergence of two-earner household, and technologies that make it easier to interact electronically rather than in person.

It’s the “bowling alone” phenomenon documented in the 2000 bestselling book of the same name by Robert Putnam.

Willis grew up in Colts Neck and moved back to the area after 14 years in Washington, DC, Cincinatti and Providence. (Self-plug: one of the things that attracted him to Red Bank, he says, was his discovery of redbankgreen, whose existence he took as a good sign for his personal objectives.)

He lives opposite East Side Park on Harrison Avenue with his wife, Kelly Wilder-Willis, a neuropsychologist who grew up in Middletown, and their two small boys. The couple came back to New Jersey largely so the boys could be near their grandparents and other relatives.

But leaving Providence meant giving up a neighborhood with “astounding social and economic diversity,” Willis says —€” not to mention great block parties. And he and his wife decided, “if we didn’t find it here, we were going to make it,” he says.

This networking stuff, he underscores, “really is my entire focus.”

Soon after arriving, Willis began planning an email newsletter for his new neighborhood, an electronic venue for people to share information and insights about everything from the availability of babysitting services to updates on the water-line replacement work now underway in the area to notices of free stuff about to be put out on the curb.

Willis said he encountered some suspicion when he first went door-to-door to pitch the idea and collect email addresses. Some people wanted to know what he was getting out of it, and others worried that their inboxes might soon be hit with more spam.

But it wasn’t all resistance out there. In fact, he says, of the first 40 responses he got, “20 were just full of enthusiasm.”

One inspiration for what he’s doing is Front Porch Forum, a community-building organization that claims to have brought 25 percent of the population of its home city — €” Burlington, Vt. — into online discussions in its first year.

Willis has adopted several of the Front Porch Forums suggestions. One is to keep the newsletters fluff-free, or people won’t value them. Another is to build the readership to an optimal size, which turns out to be about 150 active members. And, perhaps most important, no one can post anything anonymously, which obviates the “flame wars” that occur in forums where anything goes.

He’s also sharing the workload that goes into providing content for the emails. “I don’t want to write it,” Willis says. “I want neighbors to want to do it, and I’ve got people stepping up.”

“This is for neighbors by neighbors,” he says.

Already, one parent has suggested organizing a play group for kids of a certain age. One neighbor volunteered to get in touch with Parks & Rec to get the lowdown on what improvements are planned for East Side Park, and another has said he’ll reach out to Police Chief Mark Fitzgerald about organizing a neighborhood crime watch.

The East Side Park Neighbors Newsletter, Willis wants it known, is not meant to isolate the neighborhood from the rest of Red Bank. In fact, he says he’s willing to share the software and know-how behind the newsletter to anyone in town who wants to adopt it for similar efforts.

He thinks that offer might be of particular interest to residents of the West Side, whom he’s seen coming together anew in the wake of the Best Liquors controversy and concerns about crime and housing conditions.

Whether his idealism proves infectious remains to be determined. Calling the police chief and writing up a short report can be a burden for people with full-time jobs and kids.

“I’m going to try to help him if I can,” says John Gosden, a Harrison Avenue resident for nine years who has a particular interest in the upkeep of the park.

“It kinds of brings people together as a community,” he says. “It’s actually a very busy park.”

Willis thinks it will take some time to work the bugs out and get the newsletter established. Already, he’s sent out two issues, but problems with spam-bocking software in the email programs of many intended recipients kept the first one from getting though.

But that’s a fixable problem, says Willis. The bigger challenge is fostering a sense of community.

“If we accomplish one thing, I’m hoping we diminish that cynicism that keeps people from talking to one another,” he says.

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  • Jim's a great addition to Red Bank. Keep an eye out for him; I expect we'll be hearing a lot from him down the road. Good job RedBankGreen. It is great finding out about new and interesting people in town.

    Posted by: Tom L on December 17, 2007 at 4:09 pm | Permalink
  • Congratulations Jim! We're thrilled that Front Porch Forum's experience is helping a community-building effort in another part of the country. We're up to 30% of the Burlington, VT households on board now. All told, we're hosting 130 online neighborhood forums in our metro area… people make great use of them.

    Posted by: Michael Wood-Lewis on December 17, 2007 at 10:10 pm | Permalink
  • Good luck to Jim! I hope this community-building idea works and catches on in other neighborhoods.

    Posted by: Boris on December 18, 2007 at 8:35 am | Permalink
  • Just to add a few details to RBG's (really wonderful) piece:

    Neighbors who live somewhere in the vicinity of this map: http://tinyurl.com/ywxvtg can send an email to rbespn@willisbros.net with their family name and street name to participate in the newsletter. (e.g. Willis Family, Harrison Ave.) If you are a few blocks outside the boundaries of the map, send us an email anyway.

    The reason for the initial limited coverage area is to try to maintain about 150 active participants in each e-newsletter neighborhood. That 150 number isn't really arbitrary but has been suggested to be the optimum number of participants in an online/neighborhood community[1].

    As mentioned above, I'd be really happy to work with folks in other RB neighborhoods to help them roll out e-newsletters for their areas. I'm writing (open source/free) software that facilitates producing/mailing the e-newsletter but it will be a few months before it's ready for widespread use. If this sounds like something you'd be interested in, drop me an email: jim@banyansocialtech.com Also, I'd love to hear from other people in the area who are interested in discussing technology's intersection with neighborhood issues, community-building and social capital.

    Thanks again RBG for the really great welcome to the neighborhood.

    [1] Keith Hampton at U Penn's Annenberg School has done a lot of research on this stuff. If you're interested in reading more, check out some of his publications here: http://mysocialnetwork.net/

    Posted by: Jim Willis on December 18, 2007 at 9:50 am | Permalink
  • welcome back jim,

    i too am eager to see community building come full circle. i live in fair haven and can see clealry how many of our neighborhoods would stand to benefit from social networking, front porch networks and timely meetings.
    a river oaks newletter/the gentry/the historical district. it would be great to connect all these people and share events, opinions, wish lists, yard sales offers etc.

    Posted by: CHRIS on December 18, 2007 at 12:05 pm | Permalink
  • As a Rhode Islander who misses Jim's brain at the state house immensely, I am so happy to have had community networking impressed onto my brain by Jim. Having moved into a very old-school neighborhood with little turnover in residents and the yell across the street to your neighbor's front porch mentality, using technology to connect people has had tangible success. We have neighborhood watch e-mails when a coyote was seen wandering around, we have babysitter trades, and when a developer wanted to buy the 9-hole golf course bordering the 'hood, we banded together, responded in the media to the proposal within 24 hrs and successfully lobbied city officials to the point where the developer withdrew the proposal.

    Neighborhoods are the connective tissue of society, and engaging neighbors to be neighborly keeps that tissue healthy and strong.

    Thanks for your example, Jim, we needed it, and more neighborhood do too!!

    Posted by: Dan Meuse on December 19, 2007 at 8:51 pm | Permalink
  • Red Bank is a better place with Jim and Kelli Willis living in the community. As an old friend of Jim's, I'm not surprised at his enthusiasm and commitment to the the neighborhood and greater RB area. Cheers to you Jim and all who are willing to keep it going.

    All the best,

    Robyn from Australia

    Posted by: Robyn Rebollo on December 22, 2007 at 9:10 am | Permalink
  • Jim–come back!!! We miss you!

    -Everyone in Providence

    Posted by: Archie Roberts on December 22, 2007 at 4:21 pm | Permalink

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